Accept OrderByLists in order_by

Accept OrderByLists in order_by

Add OrderByRole to acceptable arguments for order_by

Fixes: #13248
### Description
Add OrderByRole to acceptable arguments for order_by to solve typing regression

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- [x] A documentation / typographical / small typing error fix
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Closes: #13251
Pull-request: https://github.com/sqlalchemy/sqlalchemy/pull/13251
Pull-request-sha: 267e33f31139d4b6c6c3309b5875e1896e10e743

Change-Id: I0778cdecfebfb12bafc5b6027763ae5f5dcf02a2