MINOR: buffer: replace bi_del() and bo_del() with b_del()

MINOR: buffer: replace bi_del() and bo_del() with b_del()

Till now the callers had to know which one to call for specific use cases.
Let's fuse them now since a single one will remain after the API migration.
Given that bi_del() may only be used where o==0, just combine the two tests
by first removing output data then only input.