Fix progress reporting of REINDEX CONCURRENTLY

Fix progress reporting of REINDEX CONCURRENTLY

This addresses a couple of issues with the so-said subject:
- Report the correct parent relation with the index actually being
rebuilt or validated.  Previously, the command status remained set to
the last index created for the progress of the index build and
validation, which would be incorrect when working on a table that has
more than one index.
- Use the correct phase when waiting before the drop of the old
indexes.  Previously, this was reported with the same status as when
waiting before the old indexes are marked as dead.

Author: Matthias van de Meent, Michael Paquier
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAEze2WhqFgcwe1_tv=sFYhLWV2AdpfukumotJ6JNcAOQs3jufg@mail.gmail.com
Backpatch-through: 12