add "The server failed to resume the transaction" to pymssql

add "The server failed to resume the transaction" to pymssql

Added error "The server failed to resume the transaction" to the list of
error strings for the pymssql driver in determining a disconnect scenario,
as observed by one user using pymssql under otherwise unknown conditions as
leaving an unusable connection in the connection pool which fails to ping
cleanly.

Fixes: #11822
Change-Id: I1cf98046978b10775f19531878b597d32b056f13
(cherry picked from commit ac5a27db854fe9f6fbad5b93130e4a9c19405f3a)