Bluetooth: MGMT: fix crash in set_mesh_sync and set_mesh_complete

Bluetooth: MGMT: fix crash in set_mesh_sync and set_mesh_complete

There is a BUG: KASAN: stack-out-of-bounds in set_mesh_sync due to
memcpy from badly declared on-stack flexible array.

Another crash is in set_mesh_complete() due to double list_del via
mgmt_pending_valid + mgmt_pending_remove.

Use DEFINE_FLEX to declare the flexible array right, and don't memcpy
outside bounds.

As mgmt_pending_valid removes the cmd from list, use mgmt_pending_free,
and also report status on error.

Fixes: 302a1f674c00d ("Bluetooth: MGMT: Fix possible UAFs")
Signed-off-by: Pauli Virtanen <pav@iki.fi>
Reviewed-by: Paul Menzel <pmenzel@molgen.mpg.de>
Signed-off-by: Luiz Augusto von Dentz <luiz.von.dentz@intel.com>