flist: accept the missing-args mode-0 entry in recv_file_entry (#910)

flist: accept the missing-args mode-0 entry in recv_file_entry (#910)

--delete-missing-args (missing_args==2) sends a missing --files-from arg as a
mode-0 entry (IS_MISSING_FILE), the generator's delete signal.  The mode-type
validation in recv_file_entry() rejected mode 0 as an invalid file type,
aborting the transfer with 'invalid file mode 00 ... code 2' before the
generator could act (a regression from 3.4.1).  Allow mode 0 through only when
missing_args==2 (the delete mode -- not --ignore-missing-args, which never
sends a mode-0 entry); all other modes are still rejected.