bugfixes and note missing features

bugfixes and note missing features

deal with content-length headers better when reading http
don't assume struct socks4_info is a packed struct
fail the socks handshake if destip is zero
flesh out conn_state_to_string() for dir conn
fix typo (bug) in connection_handle_read()
directory get is now called fetch, post is now upload
reopen logs on sighup

svn:r475