MINOR: conn_stream: add a pointer back to the cs from the endpoint

MINOR: conn_stream: add a pointer back to the cs from the endpoint

Muxes and applets need to have both a pointer to the endpoint and to the
conn_stream. It would seem more natural that they only have a pointer to
the endpoint (that is always there) and that this one has an optional
pointer to the conn_stream. This would reduce the number of elements to
manipulate in lower level code. In addition, the conn_stream is not much
used from the lower layers (wake and exceptional events mostly).