MEDIUM: connection: make conn_drain() perform more controls

MEDIUM: connection: make conn_drain() perform more controls

Currently si_idle_conn_null_cb() has to perform some low-level checks
over the file descriptor and the connection configuration that should
only belong to conn_drain(). Let's move these controls there. The
function now automatically checks for errors and hangups on the file
descriptor for example, and disables recv polling if there's no drain
function at the control layer.