BUG/MEDIUM: thread: mask stopping_threads with threads_enabled when checking it

BUG/MEDIUM: thread: mask stopping_threads with threads_enabled when checking it

When soft-stopping, there's a comparison between stopping_threads and
threads_enabled to make sure all threads are stopped, but this is not
correct and is racy since the threads_enabled bit is removed when a
thread is stopped but not its stopping_threads bit. The consequence is
that depending on timing, when stopping, if the first stopping thread
is fast enough to remove its bit from threads_enabled, the other threads
will see that stopping_threads doesn't match threads_enabled anymore and
will wait forever. As such the mask must be applied to stopping_threads
during the test. This issue was introduced in recent commit ef422ced9
("MEDIUM: thread: make stopping_threads per-group and add stopping_tgroups"),
no backport is needed.