MEDIUM: connection: reorganize connection flags

MEDIUM: connection: reorganize connection flags

The connection flags have progressively been added one after the other
and were not very well organized. Some of them are often used together
and a number of operations are performed on the DATA/SOCK ENA/POL flags.
Thus, they have been reorganized so that flags that work together are
close to each other (allows immediate operands on ARM) and that polling
changes can be detected with fewer operations using a simple shift and
xor. The handshakes are now the last ones so that it will be easier to
add new ones after without risking a collision. All activity-related
flags are also grouped together.