projects: Fix Visual Studio wolfSSL configurations

projects: Fix Visual Studio wolfSSL configurations

- Change build-wolfssl.bat to disable SSLv3, enable TLSv1.3, enable
  wolfSSL_DES_ecb_encrypt (needed by NTLM) and enable alt cert chains.

- Disable warning C4214 'bit field types other than int'.

- Add include directory wolfssl\wolfssl.

wolfSSL offers OpenSSL API compatibility that libcurl uses, and some
recent change in libcurl included an include file for wolfSSL like
openssl/foo.h, which has a path like wolfssl\wolfssl\openssl\foo.h.

The include directory issue was reported in #8292 but it's currently
unclear whether this type of change is needed for other build systems.

Bug: https://github.com/curl/curl/issues/8292
Reported-by: Harry Sarson
Closes https://github.com/curl/curl/pull/8298