iommu/amd: KVM: SVM: Set pCPU info in IRTE when setting vCPU affinity

iommu/amd: KVM: SVM: Set pCPU info in IRTE when setting vCPU affinity

Now that setting vCPU affinity is guarded with ir_list_lock, i.e. now that
avic_physical_id_entry can be safely accessed, set the pCPU info
straight-away when setting vCPU affinity.  Putting the IRTE into posted
mode, and then immediately updating the IRTE a second time if the target
vCPU is running is wasteful and confusing.

This also fixes a flaw where a posted IRQ that arrives between putting
the IRTE into guest_mode and setting the correct destination could cause
the IOMMU to ring the doorbell on the wrong pCPU.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250611224604.313496-44-seanjc@google.com
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>