QUIC APL: Make SSL_get_error per-stream, error raising refactor

QUIC APL: Make SSL_get_error per-stream, error raising refactor

This refactors the error raising code in the APL to automatically raise
errors in the correct SSL object, either a QCSO or QSSO depending on the
circumstances. The QCTX structure's responsibilities are expanded to
facilitate this. This further drives towards a unified mechanism for
generic dispatch precondition checking and error raising.

Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/20856)