mm/slub: remove DEACTIVATE_TO_* stat items

mm/slub: remove DEACTIVATE_TO_* stat items

The cpu slabs and their deactivations were removed, so remove the unused
stat items. Weirdly enough the values were also used to control
__add_partial() adding to head or tail of the list, so replace that with
a new enum add_mode, which is cleaner.

Reviewed-by: Suren Baghdasaryan <surenb@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Hao Li <hao.li@linux.dev>
Reviewed-by: Harry Yoo <harry.yoo@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Vlastimil Babka <vbabka@suse.cz>