Bluetooth: ISO: fix refcounting of iso_conn

Bluetooth: ISO: fix refcounting of iso_conn

iso_conn_del() and iso_chan_del() have a race that results to double-put
of iso_conn:

    [Task hdev->workqueue]         [Task 2]
    iso_conn_del                   iso_chan_del
      iso_conn_hold_unless_zero      iso_conn_lock
      iso_conn_lock                  conn->sk = NULL
                                     iso_conn_unlock
      sk = iso_sock_hold(conn)  <---------´
      if (!sk) iso_conn_put          iso_conn_put
      iso_conn_put /* UAF */

The extra put for !sk in iso_conn_del() is currently required since
failing iso_chan_add() may leave iso_conn not associated with any sk.

Fix by having iso_pi(sk)->conn own refcount when non-NULL, so
iso_conn_del does not need to put it.  Adjust the iso_conn_add()
refcounting so that conn is put if it does not get associated with an
sk.

Fixes: dc26097bdb86 ("Bluetooth: ISO: Use kref to track lifetime of iso_conn")
Signed-off-by: Pauli Virtanen <pav@iki.fi>
Signed-off-by: Luiz Augusto von Dentz <luiz.von.dentz@intel.com>