MEDIUM: applet: make the applets only use si_applet_{cant|want|stop}_{get|put}

MEDIUM: applet: make the applets only use si_applet_{cant|want|stop}_{get|put}

The applets don't fiddle with SI_FL_WAIT_ROOM anymore, instead they indicate
what they want, possibly that they failed (eg: WAIT_ROOM), and it's done() /
update() which finally updates the WAIT_* flags according to the channels'
and stream interface's states. This solves the issue of the pauses during a
"show sess" without creating busy loops.