asyncio: sync with Tulip

asyncio: sync with Tulip

* Remove unused SSLProtocol._closing attribute
* test_sslproto: skip test if ssl module is missing
* Python issue #23208: Don't use the traceback of the current handle if we
  already know the traceback of the source. The handle may be more revelant,
  but having 3 tracebacks (handle, source, exception) becomes more difficult to
  read. The handle may be preferred later but it requires more work to make
  this choice.