Prebuild the row string to position lookup for Rows

Prebuild the row string to position lookup for Rows

Improved :class:`_engine.Row` implementation to optimize
``__getattr__`` performance.
The serialization of a :class:`_engine.Row` to pickle has changed with
this change. Pickle saved by older SQLAlchemy versions can still be loaded,
but new pickle saved by this version cannot be loaded by older ones.

Fixes: #9678
Closes: #9668
Pull-request: https://github.com/sqlalchemy/sqlalchemy/pull/9668
Pull-request-sha: 86b8ccd1959dbd91b1208f7a648a91f217e1f866

Change-Id: Ia85c26a59e1a57ba2bf0d65578c6168f82a559f2