MINOR: connection: implement conn_sock_send()

MINOR: connection: implement conn_sock_send()

This function is an equivalent to send() which operates over a connection
instead of a file descriptor. It checks that the control layer is ready
and that it's allowed to send. If automatically enables polling if it
cannot send. It simplifies the return checks by returning zero in all
cases where it cannot send so that the caller only has to care about
negative values indicating errors.