sorcery: Refactor create, update and delete to better deal with caches

sorcery:  Refactor create, update and delete to better deal with caches

The ast_sorcery_create, update and delete function have been refactored
to better deal with caches and errors.

The action is now called on all non-caching wizards first. If ANY succeed,
the action is called on all caching wizards and the observers are notified.
This way we don't put something in the cache (or update or delete) before
knowing the action was performed in at least 1 backend and we only call the
observers once even if there were multiple writable backends.

ast_sorcery_create was never adding to caches in the first place which
was preventing contacts from getting added to a memory_cache when they
were created.  In turn this was causing memory_cache to emit errors if
the contact was deleted before being retrieved (which would have
populated the cache).

ASTERISK-25811 #close
Reported-by: Ross Beer
Change-Id: Id5596ce691685a79886e57b0865888458d6e7b46