app_chanspy: reduce audio loss on the spying channel.

app_chanspy: reduce audio loss on the spying channel.

ChanSpy was creating its audiohook with the flags AST_AUDIOHOOK_TRIGGER_SYNC
and AST_AUDIOHOOK_SMALL_QUEUE, which caused audio frames to be lost when
queues grow too large or when read and write queues go out of sync.
Now these flags are set conditionally:
- AST_AUDIOHOOK_TRIGGER_SYNC is not set if the option "o" is set
- a new option "l" is created: if set, AST_AUDIOHOOK_SMALL_QUEUE will not
be set on the audiohook

ASTERISK-25866

Change-Id: I9c7652f41d9fa72c8691e4e70ec4fd16b047a4dd