app_queue: Fix queues randomly disappearing on reload

app_queue: Fix queues randomly disappearing on reload

With 500+ queues and a reload every minute, a random queue disappears
upon reload. The cause is mususe of the 'dead' flag. Namely, all queues
were marked dead up front, and then "resurrected" by dropping this flag
for those found in the configuration. But a queue marked dead can be
removed also when control leaves the app entry point on a PBX thread.

With this change, the queue is marked only not found, and at the end of
reload only the queues that are still not found are actually marked as
dead, so the dead flag is never reset, and set only on positively dead
queues.

ASTERISK-26755

Change-Id: I3a4537aec9eb8d8aeeaa0193407e3523feb004bf