app-layer: track modified/processed txs

app-layer: track modified/processed txs

To optimize detection, and logging, to avoid going through
all the live transactions when only a few were modified.

Two boolean fields are added to the tx data: updated_tc and ts
The app-layer parsers are now responsible to set these when
needed, and the logging and detection uses them to skip
transactions that were not updated.

There may some more optimization remaining by when we set
both updated_tc and updated_ts in functions returning
a mutable transaction, by checking if all the callers
are called in one direction only (request or response)

Ticket: 7087
(cherry picked from commit b02557ac7dd6b55187309cee93f849ee2917d0cb)