tcpserver: Fix multiprocess modes

tcpserver: Fix multiprocess modes

Two recent changes broke Tornado's multiprocess modes by initializing
the event loop before the fork in typical patterns.
- The removal of `io_loop` arguments moved a call to
  IOLoop.current() earlier in TCPServer's constructor.
- The change to `asyncio.Future` initialized the asyncio event loop at
  import time.

Move the call in TCPServer earlier (and audit the rest of that change
to make sure this didn't happen anywhere else) and replace
`gen.moment` and `gen._null_future` with dummy objects that do not
involve the asyncio event loop.