oomd: calculate 'used' memory with MemAvailable instead of MemFree

oomd: calculate 'used' memory with MemAvailable instead of MemFree

The calculation for used memory in oomd_system_context_acquire is given
by MemTotal - MemFree from /proc/meminfo. This is too strict of a
calculation because it does not consider memory that is still available
for starting new applictions without swapping (MemAvailable). As a
result, systemd-oomd can start to kill processes before it is necessary.
This is more apparent on systems with low swap space.

Instead, compute 'used' memory as MemTotal - MemAvailable in
oomd_system_context_acquire and procfs_memory_get (which is used by
oomd_cgroup_context_acquire). And, rename oomd_mem_free_below to
oomd_mem_available_below for clarity.