sd-daemon: add fd array size safety check to sd_notify_with_fds()

sd-daemon: add fd array size safety check to sd_notify_with_fds()

The previous commit removed the UINT_MAX check for the fd array. Let's
now re-add one, but at a better place, and with a more useful limit. As
it turns out the kernel does not allow passing more than 253 fds at the
same time, hence use that as limit. And do so immediately before
calculating the control buffer size, so that we catch multiplication
overflows.