vmspawn: add --ephemeral option similar to nspawn

vmspawn: add --ephemeral option similar to nspawn

This patch adds a `--ephemeral` option to vmspawn that will turn
on snapshot mode on the qemu disk passed via `--image` or the
directory passed via `--directory`. For disk images it uses the
native mechanism that qemu provides. For directories it (re)uses
the snapshot mechanism that nspawn is using, i.e. it will create
a btrfs snapshot if possible and if not falls back to a traditional
directory copy.