MINOR: mux-quic: refactor wait-for-handshake support

MINOR: mux-quic: refactor wait-for-handshake support

This commit refactors wait-for-handshake support from QUIC MUX. The flag
logic QC_CF_WAIT_HS is inverted : it is now positionned only if MUX is
instantiated before handshake completion. When the handshake is
completed, the flag is removed.

The flag is now set directly on initialization via qmux_init(). Removal
via qcc_wait_for_hs() is moved from qcc_io_process() to qcc_io_recv().
This is deemed more logical as QUIC MUX is scheduled on RECV to be
notify by the transport layer about handshake termination. Moreover,
qcc_wait_for_hs() is now called if recv subscription is still active.

This commit is the first of a serie which aims to refactor QUIC MUX I/O
handler and improves its overall performance. The ultimate objective is
to be able to stream qcc_io_cb() by removing pacing specific code path
via qcc_purge_sending().

This should be backported up to 3.1.