accommodate all mapped_column() parameters in Annotated transfer

accommodate all mapped_column() parameters in Annotated transfer

Fixed a wide range of :func:`_orm.mapped_column` parameters that were not
being transferred when using the :func:`_orm.mapped_column` object inside
of a pep-593 ``Annotated`` object, including
:paramref:`_orm.mapped_column.sort_order`,
:paramref:`_orm.mapped_column.deferred`,
:paramref:`_orm.mapped_column.autoincrement`,
:paramref:`_orm.mapped_column.system`, :paramref:`_orm.mapped_column.info`
etc.

Additionally, it remains not supported to have dataclass arguments, such as
:paramref:`_orm.mapped_column.kw_only`,
:paramref:`_orm.mapped_column.default_factory` etc. indicated within the
:func:`_orm.mapped_column` received by ``Annotated``, as this is not
supported with pep-681 Dataclass Transforms.  A warning is now emitted when
these parameters are used within ``Annotated`` in this way (and they
continue to be ignored).

Fixes: #10369
Fixes: #10046
Change-Id: Ibcfb287cba0e764db0ae15fab8049bbb9f94dd1b