MAJOR: threads: change thread_isolate to support inter-group synchronization

MAJOR: threads: change thread_isolate to support inter-group synchronization

thread_isolate() and thread_isolate_full() were relying on a set of thread
masks for all threads in different states (rdv, harmless, idle). This cannot
work anymore when the number of threads increases beyond LONGBITS so we need
to change the mechanism.

What is done here is to have a counter of requesters and the number of the
current isolated thread. Threads which want to isolate themselves increment
the request counter and wait for all threads to be marked harmless (or idle)
by scanning all groups and watching the respective masks. This is possible
because threads cannot escape once they discover this counter, unless they
also want to isolate and possibly pass first. Once all threads are harmless,
the requesting thread tries to self-assign the isolated thread number, and
if it fails it loops back to checking all threads. If it wins it's guaranted
to be alone, and can drop its harmless bit, so that other competing threads
go back to the loop waiting for all threads to be harmless. The benefit of
proceeding this way is that there's very little write contention on the
thread number (none during work), hence no cache line moves between caches,
thus frozen threads do not slow down the isolated one.

Once it's done, the isolated thread resets the thread number (hence lets
another thread take the place) and decrements the requester count, thus
possibly releasing all harmless threads.

With this change there's no more need for any global mask to synchronize
any thread, and we only need to loop over a number of groups to check
64 threads at a time per iteration. As such, tinfo's threads_want_rdv
could be dropped.

This was tested with 64 threads spread into 2 groups, running 64 tasks
(from the debug dev command), 20 "show sess" (thread_isolate()), 20
"add server blah/blah" (thread_isolate()), and 20 "del server blah/blah"
(thread_isolate_full()). The load remained very low (limited by external
socat forks) and no stuck nor starved thread was found.