Optimize has_intersection func

Optimize has_intersection func

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Optimize `has_intersection` function.  It uses in few places, but even so it might be optimized. New version:
1. Does not allocate new set
2. A bit of performance speedup
```
from sqlalchemy import util

import timeit
import functools

a = {1, 2, 3}
b = [2, 3, 4]

t1 = timeit.Timer(functools.partial(util.has_intersection, a, b))
t2 = timeit.Timer(functools.partial(util.has_intersection2, a, b))

print("old", t1.timeit())
print("new", t2.timeit())

old 0.37196154199773446
new 0.29704541599494405

old 0.37331208398973104
new 0.29647241700149607
```

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- [x] A documentation / typographical / small typing error fix
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- [ ] A short code fix
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**Have a nice day!**

Closes: #11378
Pull-request: https://github.com/sqlalchemy/sqlalchemy/pull/11378
Pull-request-sha: 258bf1af7c73c83502eb49240a996f5846c6a0a9

Change-Id: Ic1ec1448641304eba4751f55f1e3c2b217f7f352