stasis/app: don't lock an app before a call to send
Calling 'app_send' eventually calls the app's message handler. It's possible
for a handler to obtain a lock on another object, and then need/want to lock
the app object. If the caller of 'app_send' locks the app object prior to
calling then there's a potential for a deadlock, if another thread calls
'app_send' without locking.
This patch makes it so 'app_send' is not called with the app object locked in
the section of code doing such.