MINOR: mux-h2: stop relying on CS_FL_REOS

MINOR: mux-h2: stop relying on CS_FL_REOS

This flag was introduced early in 1.9 development (a3f7efe00) to report
the fact that the rxbuf that was present on the conn_stream was followed
by a shutr. Since then the rxbuf moved from the conn_stream to the h2s
(638b799b0) but the flag remained on the conn_stream. It is problematic
because some state transitions inside the mux depend on it, thus depend
on the CS, and as such have to test for its existence before proceeding.

This patch replaces the test on CS_FL_REOS with a test on the only
states that set this flag (H2_SS_CLOSED, H2_SS_HREM, H2_SS_ERROR).
The few places where the flag was set were removed (the flag is not
used by the data layer).