net: turn the rx_mode work into a generic netdev_work facility

net: turn the rx_mode work into a generic netdev_work facility

The rx_mode update runs from a workqueue: drivers have their
ndo_set_rx_mode_async() callback executed by a single global
work item under RTNL and ops lock. This is a useful pattern.

Support multiple "events" that need to be serviced and make RX_MODE
sync the first one. Call the events "core" because later on
we will let drivers define and schedule their own.

Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@google.com>
Acked-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@fomichev.me>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260624182018.2445732-2-kuba@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>