ice: recap the VSI and QoS info after rebuild

ice: recap the VSI and QoS info after rebuild

Fix IRDMA hardware initialization timeout (-110) after resume by
separating VSI-dependent configuration from RDMA resource allocation,
ensuring VSI is rebuilt before IRDMA accesses it.

After resume from suspend, IRDMA hardware initialization fails:
  ice: IRDMA hardware initialization FAILED init_state=4 status=-110

Separate RDMA initialization into two phases:
1. ice_init_rdma() - Allocate resources only (no VSI/QoS access, no plug)
2. ice_rdma_finalize_setup() - Assign VSI/QoS info and plug device

This allows:
- ice_init_rdma() to stay in ice_resume() (mirrors ice_deinit_rdma()
  in ice_suspend())
- VSI assignment deferred until after ice_vsi_rebuild() completes
- QoS info updated after ice_dcb_rebuild() completes
- Device plugged only when control queues, VSI, and DCB are all ready

Fixes: bc69ad74867db ("ice: avoid IRQ collision to fix init failure on ACPI S3 resume")
Reviewed-by: Aleksandr Loktionov <aleksandr.loktionov@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Aaron Ma <aaron.ma@canonical.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>