xprtrdma: Close lost-wakeup race in xprt_rdma_alloc_slot

xprtrdma: Close lost-wakeup race in xprt_rdma_alloc_slot

xprt_rdma_alloc_slot() and xprt_rdma_free_slot() lack serialization
between the buffer pool and the backlog queue.  A buffer freed
after rpcrdma_buffer_get() finds the pool empty but before
rpc_sleep_on() places the task on the backlog is returned to the
pool with no waiter to wake, leaving the task stuck on the backlog
indefinitely.

After joining the backlog, re-check the pool and route any
recovered buffer through xprt_wake_up_backlog(), whose queue lock
serializes with concurrent wakeups and avoids double-assignment
of slots.

Because xprt_rdma_free_slot() does not hold reserve_lock, the
XPRT_CONGESTED double-check in xprt_throttle_congested() is
ineffective: a task can join the backlog through that path after
free_slot has already found it empty and cleared the bit.  Avoid
this by using xprt_add_backlog_noncongested(), which queues the
task without setting XPRT_CONGESTED, so every allocation reaches
xprt_rdma_alloc_slot() and its post-sleep re-check.

Fixes: edb41e61a54e ("xprtrdma: Make rpc_rqst part of rpcrdma_req")
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>