gh-109566, regrtest: Add --fast-ci and --slow-ci options (#109570)

gh-109566, regrtest: Add --fast-ci and --slow-ci options (#109570)

* Add --fast-ci and --slow-ci options to libregrtest:

  * --fast-ci uses a default timeout of 10 minutes and "-u all,-cpu"
    (skip slowest tests).
  * --slow-ci uses a default timeout of 20 minues and "-u all" (run
    all tests).

* regrtest header now lists test resources.
* Makefile changes:

  * "make test", "make hostrunnertest" and "make coverage-report" now
    use --fast-ci option and TESTTIMEOUT variable.
  * "make buildbottest" now uses "--slow-ci". Remove options which
    became redundant with "--slow-ci".
  * "make testall" and "make testuniversal" now use --slow-ci option
    and TESTTIMEOUT variable.
  * "make testall" now uses "find -exec rm ..." instead of
    "find ... -print|xargs rm ...", same as "make clean".

* GitHub Actions workflow:

  * Ubuntu and Address Sanitizer jobs now use "make test". Remove
    options which became redundant with "--fast-ci".
  * Windows jobs now use --fast-ci option.
  * Use -j0 to detect the number of CPUs.

* Set Makefile TESTTIMEOUT default to an empty string, since
  --slow-ci and --fast-ci use different default timeout. It's now
  accepted to pass "--timeout=" to regrtest: treated as not timeout.
* Tools/scripts/run_tests.py now uses --fast-ci option.
* Tools/buildbot/test.bat now uses --slow-ci option. Remove
  --timeout=1200 option, redundant with --slow-ci.