xattr: add rhashtable-based simple_xattr infrastructure

xattr: add rhashtable-based simple_xattr infrastructure

Add rhashtable support to the simple_xattr subsystem while keeping the
existing rbtree code fully functional. This allows consumers to be
migrated one at a time without breaking any intermediate build.

struct simple_xattrs gains a dispatch flag and a union holding either
the rbtree (rb_root + rwlock) or rhashtable state:

  struct simple_xattrs {
      bool use_rhashtable;
      union {
          struct { struct rb_root rb_root; rwlock_t lock; };
          struct rhashtable ht;
      };
  };

simple_xattrs_init() continues to set up the rbtree path for existing
embedded-struct callers.

Add simple_xattrs_alloc() which dynamically allocates a simple_xattrs
and initializes the rhashtable path. This is the entry point for
consumers switching to pointer-based lazy allocation.

The five core functions (get, set, list, add, free) dispatch based on
the use_rhashtable flag.

Existing callers continue to use the rbtree path unchanged. As each
consumer is converted it will switch to simple_xattrs_alloc() and the
rhashtable path. Once all consumers are converted a follow-up patch
will remove the rbtree code.

Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260216-work-xattr-socket-v1-2-c2efa4f74cb7@kernel.org
Acked-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>