favor setuptools imports over distutils

favor setuptools imports over distutils

Python 3.10 has deprecated "distutils" in favor of explicit use of
"setuptools" in :pep:`632`; SQLAlchemy's setup.py has replaced imports
accordingly. However, since setuptools itself only recently added the
replacement symbols mentioned in pep-632 as of November of 2022 in version
59.0.1, ``setup.py`` still has fallback imports to distutils, as SQLAlchemy
1.4 does not have a hard setuptools versioning requirement at this time.
SQLAlchemy 2.0 is expected to use a full :pep:`517` installation layout
which will indicate appropriate setuptools versioning up front.

Fixes: #7311
Change-Id: I215ef3c3b226a38266f59d181214aea462c4664d
(cherry picked from commit e6c02c33728a581e0df910caa8d96b6e114c114d)