packfile: introduce function to load and add packfiles

packfile: introduce function to load and add packfiles

We have a recurring pattern where we essentially perform an upsert of a
packfile in case it isn't yet known by the packfile store. The logic to
do so is non-trivial as we have to reconstruct the packfile's key, check
the map of packfiles, then create the new packfile and finally add it to
the store.

Introduce a new function that does this dance for us. Refactor callsites
to use it.

Signed-off-by: Patrick Steinhardt <ps@pks.im>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>