tests: avoid hard-coded CRLFs in more sections

tests: avoid hard-coded CRLFs in more sections

- `reply/data*`, `verify/stdout`, `verify/stderr`, `verify/file*`,
  `verify/proxy`:
  - make `crlf="yes"` force CRLF to all lines, instead of just applying
    to HTTP protocol headers.
  - add support for `crlf="headers"` that only converts HTTP protocol
    header lines to CRLF. (previously done via `crlf="yes"`.)
  - use `crlf="headers"` where possible.

- `reply/connect*`:
  - add support for `crlf="yes"` and `crlf="headers"`.
  - use them where possible.

- `client/file*`, `client/stdin`:
  - add support for `crlf="yes"`.
  - use it where possible.

- `reply/data*`, `verify/protocol`:
  - replace existing uses of `crlf="yes"` with `crlf="headers`" where it
    does not change the result.

Reducing the number of `tests/data/test*`:
- CRLF newlines from 10295 to 1985. (119985 lines total)
- files with mixed newlines from 656 to 113. (1890 files total)

After this patch there remain 141 sections with mixed newlines, where
the mixing is not split between headers/non-headers. There is no obvious
pattern here. Some of the CRLF uses might be accidental, or
non-significant. They will be tackled in a future patch.

Follow-up to 6cf3d7b1b161bc45501d17b401225befe3c43943 #19318
Follow-up to 4d2a05d3fe8ba4db9168b03057029ea5ce7dab77 #19284

Closes #19313