Allow on-access pruning to set pages all-visible

Allow on-access pruning to set pages all-visible

Many queries do not modify the underlying relation. For such queries, if
on-access pruning occurs during the scan, we can check whether the page
has become all-visible and update the visibility map accordingly.
Previously, only vacuum and COPY FREEZE marked pages as all-visible or
all-frozen.

This commit implements on-access VM setting for sequential scans, tid
range scans, sample scans, bitmap heap scans, and the underlying heap
relation in index scans.

Setting the visibility map on-access can avoid write amplification
caused by vacuum later needing to set the page all-visible, which could
trigger a write and potentially an FPI. It also allows more frequent
index-only scans, since they require pages to be marked all-visible in
the VM.

Author: Melanie Plageman <melanieplageman@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Andres Freund <andres@anarazel.de>
Reviewed-by: Kirill Reshke <reshkekirill@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Chao Li <li.evan.chao@gmail.com>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/flat/CAAKRu_ZMw6Npd_qm2KM%2BFwQ3cMOMx1Dh3VMhp8-V7SOLxdK9-g%40mail.gmail.com