MEDIUM: stick-table: make stktable_set_entry() look up under a read lock

MEDIUM: stick-table: make stktable_set_entry() look up under a read lock

On a 24-core machine having some "stick-store response" rules, a lot of
time is spent in the write lock in stktable_set_entry(). Let's apply the
same mechanism as for the stktable_get_entry() consisting in looking up
the value under the read lock and upgrading it to a write lock only to
perform modifications. Here we even have the luxury of upgrading the
lock since there are no alloc/free in the path. All this increases the
performance by 40% (from 363k to 510k rps).