MEDIUM: connections: Change struct wait_list to wait_event.

MEDIUM: connections: Change struct wait_list to wait_event.

When subscribing, we don't need to provide a list element, only the h2 mux
needs it. So instead, Add a list element to struct h2s, and use it when a
list is needed.
This forces us to use the unsubscribe method, since we can't just unsubscribe
by using LIST_DEL anymore.
This patch is larger than it should be because it includes some renaming.