Don't send an alert if we've just received one

Don't send an alert if we've just received one

If the record received is for a version that we don't support, previously we
were sending an alert back. However if the incoming record already looks
like an alert then probably we shouldn't do that. So suppress an outgoing
alert if it looks like we've got one incoming.

Reviewed-by: Kurt Roeckx <kurt@openssl.org>