add semantics to name trees to support counters

add semantics to name trees to support counters

name trees can now also hold trees of counters. each time a name
dns_nametree_add() is called with a given name, the counter for that
name is incremented; the name is not deleted until dns_nametree_delete()
is called the same number of times.

this is meant to be used for synth-from-dnssec, which is incremented for
each key defined at a name, and decremented when a key is removed, the
name must continue to exist until the number of keys has reached zero.