Fix use-after-free in resolver SIG(0) async verification path

Fix use-after-free in resolver SIG(0) async verification path

When a SIG(0)-signed response triggers async ECDSA verification via
dns_message_checksig_async(), the respctx_t holds a raw pointer to
the resquery_t. If the fetch context is shut down while verification
is in flight (e.g. due to recursive-clients quota exhaustion), the
query is destroyed and the callback dereferences a dangling pointer.

Take a reference on the resquery_t when initializing the respctx_t,
and release it in both cleanup paths. The query's own reference to
the fetch context keeps the fctx alive transitively.

(cherry picked from commit 5b58caf5a2cd39d57a51b7b0373bfbc4877a96f9)