[master] Prevent dig INSIST failures and hangs in some failure modes

[master] Prevent dig INSIST failures and hangs in some failure modes

4756.	[bug]		Interrupting dig could lead to an INSIST failure after
			certain errors were encountered while querying a host
			whose name resolved to more than one address.  Change
			4537 increased the odds of triggering this issue by
			causing dig to hang indefinitely when certain error
			paths were evaluated.  dig now also retries TCP queries
			(once) if the server gracefully closes the connection
			before sending a response. [RT #42832, #45159]