Allocate DNS send buffers using dedicated per-worker memory arenas
This commit ensures that memory allocations related to DNS send
buffers are routed through dedicated per-worker memory arenas in order
to decrease memory usage on high load caused by TCP-based DNS
transports.
We do that by following jemalloc developers suggestions:
https://github.com/jemalloc/jemalloc/issues/2483#issuecomment-
1639019699
https://github.com/jemalloc/jemalloc/issues/2483#issuecomment-
1698173849
(cherry picked from commit
01cc7edcca26967c98f45b95834f752afc468922)